what I had been reading..

Introducing..

So good even elmo's falling for it..:p

Well well this book is my bible with dealing with people and situations.. and as we all know.. humans are complex creatures. In my humble opinion, human relations are one of the trickiest but if handled well, can be both a stepping stone in your career path and personal life.

I really wanted to share with people that matters so here goes..

ALL of us has an INNATE MOTIVE.

And our personality is innate & motive based. Your personality is anchored by your driving core motive. Your driving core motive calls the shots from your subconscious mind and causes you to think and act the way you do.Your personality determines whether you are easily depressed, casual, critical, careful or carefree.

Now comes the fun part.

We are colour coded into: Reds, Blues, Whites & Yellows. First, you take a quiz. Then you identify your core colour. With that, you learn the strengths and limitations of your own colour and that of others.And how, for instance, a Red gets along with a Blue, at work, as a friend or intimate partner.

I'm definitely a Blue, (loyal, can be too rigid and serious at times, sensitive, self-sacrificing, sincere & emotionally deep, among others) and its true that I very much enjoy the friendship and company of the Yellows (charismatic, fun, willing to make a fool of themselves, but lack focus and flighty at times) I'm positive people I have long relations with, like my best friend is a definite Yellow.

" Yellows lighten the hearts of Blues, and Blues enrich the hearts of Yellows. They make a passionate team.Whether they are parent-child, friend-friend, husband-wife,employer-employee, this combination usually experiences positive bonds of playful creativity and committed caring. Blues are motivated by intimacy. Yellows are motivated by fun but need intimacy"... Blue-yellow combinations are primarily concerned with quality relationships (genuine human connection)"

I hope I got you excited. Learning about yourself and others have never been this fun.